Speak now or forever hold your peace...

Oh man, does it ever confuse you how one small thing that you say can be misunderstood into a million and one different meanings? Is it ever possible that something is said, just as you heard it? When did it become that someone can not find another person attractive without someone assuming that you now 'like' that person. I mean, who can not identify a good looking man or woman?. Why is it that I can not just speak my mind. If I found something unbearable, why can I not say it? We always tell others when we're happy about something, so why can I not say that I am upset. Yes we look for a deep person, but at times things could only be put in such simple ways.