What is Fate

Do you believe in fate, destiny or magic? Or do you believe that we choose our futures? Could it be that all of this works together? From what I see we're born with natural likes, dislikes, talents and more. Normally, these may mold what we choose to help support our selves in the future. A person who had a liking for music and was quite the musician may opt for a career in music. A person interested in art may opt to follow that career field. I understand we go to school to learn, but our future may be fate as well as being in our control. Its up to us to use what we have already been born with and mold it to our success.

I really would prefer not to include relgious beliefs into my blog but I believe that God gave us a life, and he gave us a future seeing how he is timeless and lives in the past, present and future. I believe that he provides us with the freedom to choose our future with what he has given us. Our talents, likes and dislikes may just be the hints he uses to help us. I believe that he put us on this path provide us with options and its up to us to use that power to pick what we want to be happy. Some may aspire to be where they already other, others may aspire to become more. I think that God puts fate and our control together to make our future.

Its a little bit confusing, but thats my theory.

Happiness.

Has anyone seen the movie, "The Pursuit of Happiness"? Such a moving movie with an amazing meaning. The most amazing part is the fact that it is based on a true story. Well what would we base our happiness on? Is it the amount of money we have? The amount of friends we have? What makes up true happiness. If anything I think true happiness is me. It is you. Each of us are all so different. How could we shrink the meaning of happiness to one type. There's not just one type of human is there? We are tall, small, wide, thin, smart, loving, kind, mean. We all like different things so how could we possible confine the meaning of happiness to one type?

Liars.

We live in such a big world it would be impossible to please everyone without telling at least one lie. It's a very pessimistic way of looking at everything but without a doubt, it is a little bit true. We're in a world with 6,706,993,152 people. That`s 6,706,993,152 different people, 6,706,993,152 different personalities, 6,706,993,152 unique people. All of us were made to be one of a kind, yes we can find people we get along with but of course we'd find people with whom we couldn't get along with. So why do we continue to pursue success by creating a mask, or a new story for each person we meet. Who said being nice was to like everything someone else liked? Who said being nice was only possible if you could agree with everything someone else said? Who said that being nice wasn't achievable if you didn't like what someone else liked? The thing is, it is possible. With 6,706,993,152 different people in the world, and all the combinations of personalities you're bound to find something you like about that person. As that is possible you're going to find something you don't like. If a friend wants to vent about certain things I do, I absolutely understand. I'm not perfect, you're not perfect, no one is perfect. So why try to be? We all think differently. As long as my friend doesn't disgrace my own personality or mind I have no problem with it. That's how we grow up and learn. It is through constructive critism that we expand. I would want my friend to tell me, "Oh I didn't like that." Because if they didn't tell me things, how do I grow up? I'll continue these mistakes. I don't need a friend who wears a mask. No. I need a friend who will make me a better person. This doesn't mean I want someone who changes me to be like them. Again, 6,706,993,152 people in the world. Each one is different. But I would like someone to tell me when I'm doing something negative. No one wants a liar, just because your lie isn't a negative lie it doesn't mean it makes it any better. A lie is a lie. Lies can't please anyone.

If the only way I'll be happy with you is a lie, I'd rather be miserable.